Books to help young children understand and feel safe

These books use simple, reassuring language to help younger children (approx. ages 3⁠–⁠7) understand scary events and manage big feelings.

Once I Was Very Very Scared

by Chandra Ghosh Ippen

Ages 3–12

A little squirrel finds out he is not the only one who was once very scared, and that each animal shows it differently: hiding, clinging, barking, saying nothing at all.

Healing Days

by Susan Farber Straus

Ages 8–11

For children who have been through something frightening or hurtful: what the feelings afterward are like, and the reminder that brighter days come.

Books about school shootings and community violence

These books can help children process what happened, ask questions, and feel supported.

One Thursday Afternoon

by Barbara Dilorenzo

Ages 3–7

Ava is quiet when her granddad picks her up after a lockdown drill. He does not push her to talk; he offers time, art and patience.

Books to help children manage anxiety and worries

These stories can help children understand anxiety, build coping skills, and feel more in control.

Something Bad Happened

by Dawn Huebner

Ages 6–12

For children who have heard something big and bad in the news and whose minds keep asking where it happened, why, and whether it will happen again.

Books about grief, loss, and change

These books can help children make sense of difficult events and feel hope for the future.

Books for parents and other adults

These books are written for grown-ups rather than children: for talking with children about hard things, for your own grief, and for understanding gun violence in this country.